So I just found out that the “10,000 steps” thing is totally bogus. And I am annoyed.
You probably know what I’m talking about.
That thing a few years ago where you were supposed to take 10,000
steps every day to stay at the peak of cardiovascular health. It was on TV
and in
newspapers. People debated
the pros and cons. There were whole-ass
Web
sites where people could log their number of steps. I have heard, and still hear, both doctors
and co-workers talking about the need to “get their steps in.” And pedometers, even ridiculously
expensive ones, still sell like wildfire.
I assumed, as probably most of us did, that this came out of legitimate science. That somebody did a bunch of studies and took
the results to some exercise science geeks and they broke all the evidence down
into the optimum number of minutes that a healthy human being should be
physically active every day and translated that into walking, and it was maybe
9,883 steps or 10,211 steps or whatever, and they settled on 10,000 because it
was a nice round number.
Nope. In fact: A Japanese pedometer company wanted to sell pedometers
in China. They called their product
Manpo-kei, which translates to “10,000 steps meter.” Reason:
The character for 10,000, δΈ‡, sort
of looks like a person walking. Also, in
Mandarin Chinese, the word for 10,000 means “a whole bunch” or “an awful lot.” So it wasn’t exercise science. It was just a marketing ploy.
Hey, walking is good for you. Nobody’s
arguing about that. But the totality of
the 10,000 steps thing, and how it came to dominate fitness chatter for quite
some time (and still today), really disturbs me. We all just decided this was true. It became gospel. And I gotta wonder what other accepted truths
aren’t true. Just in the last few days I’ve
found out that, contrary to “what I’ve heard,” health insurance companies won’t
really refuse
to pay for a hospitalization if you sign out against medical advice. That the European union won’t really require U.S.
travelers to have a visa starting in 2024. Oh, and that J. Robert Oppenheimer’s full name
wasn’t really “John Jacob Oppenheimer Schmidt.”
Imagine my disappointment.
Which brings me to something else that’s really been bothering me
lately. (I’ll come back to the 10,000
steps thing.) This question that should
be taken out of the English language, and any other language it’s been
translated into: “Why don't you just...”
I dunno about you, but I hear this one a lot. Usually from someone who has no idea what’s actually
going on with a person and who feels the need to state a (to them) screamingly
obvious course of action that they think someone should have taken. Of course, if it’s screamingly obvious and
the person hasn’t done it, there’s a good reason, and the reason isn’t “this
person is an idiot”. More likely, the
screamingly obvious course of action is impossible.
Examples abound:
·
To a domestic violence victim--“Why don’t you
just leave?”
·
To a woman undergoing grueling fertility
treatments--“Why don’t you just adopt?”
·
To a fat person, for basically any reason but
also no reason whatsoever--“Why don’t you just lose weight?”
·
To a black gay trans person living in Texas --“Why
don’t you just move?”
People, don’t ask this question. For one
thing, you’re going to feel pretty dumb when you hear the answer, because the
answer’s just as screamingly obvious as whatever you think the person should be
doing in the first place.
·
The domestic violence victim--“Because he trashed
my car and got me fired from my job, and he broke my cell phone, and he says if
I try to leave he’ll kill me, and he has a gun, and the police do nothing.”
·
The woman undergoing the fertility treatments--“Because
I’ve had cancer (or a criminal history or I’m single or I’m gay) and no
adoption agency will come anywhere near me.”
·
The fat person--“Gee willikers, I live in
America in the 21st century and, like, I never heard of
losing weight, I never even knew that
was an option, great golly goshes, it’s not like
dieting my whole life led me to the weight I’m at now, or anything.”
·
The black gay trans person in Texas--“Sure, I’ll
just quit my job, sell my house (if I can), find a new job in a strange place
where I know no one, buy another house (if I can), find new doctors to treat my
various medical conditions, qualify for new health insurance (if I can), take
my kid out of school and away from his/her friends, pull my spouse away from
his/her very good career, pack up everything I own, leave behind family members
and friends of my own and maybe elderly parents who need care, and just haul
ass across the country. No problem.”
Look. If someone wants to tell you
the issues they’re dealing with, they’ll tell you. If they don’t, they probably have
reasons. Such as, you’re the kind of
person to dismiss someone else’s genuine experience of life by saying, “Why don’t
you just…”. Okay, great, you get to feel
superior for five seconds. Congratulations. Meanwhile you’ve effectively shuttered any
actual connection with that person, maybe forever. Please don’t do this. People have enough going on without being minimized,
waved aside, and talked to like they’re stupid.
Speaking of being talked to like we’re stupid: Wouldn’t it be nice if every single thing
that comes out of the news media (which now includes scads of independent Web
sites, YouTube and TikTok channels, blogs, podcasts, Facebook posts, tweets and
tweet equivalents, and tons of other things that 24/7 churn out weird amalgams
of wish, opinion and science fiction that really aren’t, and never will be, “news”)
wouldn’t immediately be taken as gospel truth and splattered all over every TV
screen by every pundit who ever lived?
It’s not really fair to expect people to be skeptical 24/7. Sure, some of us are (I, for example, am
famously skeptical) but why should we have to be? Why are we being lied to, all the time, about
everything, especially in the area of health, fitness and nutrition? (Remember the four food groups? Margarine is better for you than butter? Breakfast is the most important meal of the
day?)
Media needs to do better. Education needs to do better. Science needs to do better, too. Just because it involves weird hard-to-spell chemicals and body parts and physiological processes doesn’t mean it can’t be explained in a clear, understandable way. Most people aren’t stupid. (They may act like it sometimes, but that’s another blog post.) We can grasp this stuff. We are more than sound bites. We can handle ambiguities. We can even handle maybes. And we can accept that sometimes they don’t have an answer for us yet. So stop force-feeding us pedometers.
And stop
asking, “Why don’t you just…”. Or else I’ll
tell you. You have been warned.