I think I made it all the way through October without a blog post. Y'all must have thought I died or something. Please be advised, if I do actually die my next of kin will let you know. I'm not sure how. Maybe an obituary post. Or maybe just "SHOW'S OVER, SHE'S DEAD" in big letters. But I'm not planning to die anytime soon. I just had a physical and I'm hale and healthy and guaranteed to last at least until the next physical. Meds are working well, my mammogram was clear, I still swim three or four days a week and I've even been known to get to the gym once in a while to lift some weights. The last thing that went through the office (I think it was some kind of bronchitis) missed me completely. And I may be just a few months away from turning 50, but lots of people turn 50 every day and it doesn't kill them. So there we are and here I am and I don't know where you are, but I hope it is somewhere good.
(Incidentally, did you know that when you turn 50, you can join AARP and be part of the biggest lobbying group in the United States? True fact. Joan's been a member for--gosh, almost 10 years now. So we already get the AARP Bulletin and AARP Magazine, which are both pretty good reads--and the type is pretty big, too. Those of us with cataracts on the right appreciate big type anymore.)
I probably didn't mention this in my last blog post, but I got a new Nook. Barnes and Noble is selling a small 7" version of their Nook Tablet for only $49, and I don't know how long that'll last but if you're at all interested in having a tablet, check this one out. There's also the Samsung Galaxy Tab A Nook for about $109, which is faster and has a bigger screen. B&N naturally assumes that you will buy lots of Nook books to put on your Nook, hence they're selling this dude way below market. And that's great for those of us who love tech but are poor a lot of the time. There was nothing really wrong with my old one, the Samsung Galaxy Tab E Nook, but it was just a little bit too heavy and unwieldy for me. I couldn't comfortably balance it in one hand. So I gave it to Joan, who does not worry about balancing things with one hand and was mainly after the much bigger screen. Happy ending for all concerned. I bet she's in there watching prerecorded baseball games as we speak.
So this is another post about professional reading. As I mentioned last time, my local library -- and probably yours, too -- has lots of audiobooks that one can check out for free, load onto one's phone (or Nook) and listen to on one's way to and from work. The books I've been checking out have been all about the workplace; how to survive it, how to make it better, and how to make lots of money while making it better. And neuroscience, or, How The Brain Works and, more importantly, how to change some of the ways your brain works so that it works better for you. Apart, that is, from the stuff that's hardwired into us, which I'll get to in a little while.
The first book I read after Delivering Happiness was a book called Drive, and it was about what actually motivates people to do their best work. Surprise, it is not fear of being fired or getting patted on the head for doing good work. It's about having autonomy over the job, being able to make the key decisions without waiting for permission from someone else, and a sense of responsibility for the outcome, whatever that is. Plus the ability to choose one's team members and choose where and how and when to do the work. This is so far removed from most places I've worked that I sort of wondered if the guy who wrote it was crazy. But no. Lots of scientific studies bear this stuff out. What's more, companies that use these techniques make more money than those that don't. You can't argue with success, though you can kind of poke your finger at it and laugh if it makes you feel better.
Next up we had Thrive by Arianna Huffington, about why the typical workplace is killing us and the instructions for being a happy human. Getting enough sleep, for one thing, is vastly underrated. Ditto getting enough exercise. Staying in touch with friends and family members. Volunteering. And of course not working an 80 hour week, which is ruinous for all kinds of reasons. No. Work 40, spend the rest of your awake time with your friends and family and on projects that make you happy. Yes, this is the Arianna Huffington of The Huffington Post and no, this book is not political. I've had it up to here with politics, as probably have you, and yes, I voted, a week and a half ago on a Tuesday. And I'm typing this with my fingers crossed. Which is hard.
Then we get to A Curious Mind, by Brian Grazer, a movie producer you might have heard of (Apollo 13, Backdraft, How The Grinch Stole Christmas with Jim Carrey, etc.) This guy talked his way into a job at Warner Brothers Studios and worked his way up the proverbial ladder to become a producer and the co-head of Imagine Entertainment. (His co-head is Ron Howard, whom you also might have heard of.) Mr. Grazer likes stories, and he likes to have conversations with people. Any people. Lots of people. People it's hard to get to meet and just ordinary people that might happen by in the course of the work day. Part of the book is about these conversations with people and part of it is about why curiosity is so important and, unfortunately, undervalued.
(Confidential to Kellum: If you read this book, skip part of Chapter Two, from the moment where Brian meets Sting on the beach until about five pages past that. Or let Suzie vet it for you. I'm betting she'll agree with me. Any questions, please Google "Closetland The Movie".)
The last in the series before A Curious Mind was Brain Bugs. Yes, that sounds like a disgusting concept but luckily we're not talking about actual insects. We're talking about things in our brains that don't work the way we'd like them to, because we evolved to be hunter-gatherers and instead we're living in the most technologically complex society ever. For example, it would be great for our modern lives if we could add complex numbers in our heads and calculate the statistical odds of a thing happening, or not happening. And some people can, but most of us can't because our brains just don't work that way. Our brains are associational and relational, not technical. Which means we're very good at connecting things to other things, but not so good at remembering specific things, or calculating them. We're susceptible to advertising and political propaganda, in part because we love a good story more than we love looking at statistical odds and saying, "Well, this proposal would be good for 1% of the population and pretty much ruinous for the other 99% of the population, but I'm one of the 1% so let's do it." (Not that that doesn't happen.) If you've ever wondered why brains do the things they do, this would be a good book to check out. Though, unfortunately, it offered no advice whatsoever for those of us whose brains analyze a situation, run directly to the most catastrophic possible conclusion, and then yap about it incessantly for hours. Maybe that'll be addressed in a different book.
And that's about it for this exciting episode. I've got to go into the living room and see what that loud crash was a minute or so ago. Generally when there's a loud crash in the house, Grayson the Cat can be found in the middle of it. This guy is an explorer and a climber par excellance. He gets into a lot of stuff, too. Cheers, all!
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